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Tips On How To Get Hot Asian Ladies
Why are Western guys so attracted to Asian women? In locations including England, America, Australia and Canada, why are more men marrying Asian women each and every year?
Well, the physical appeal of Asian women cannot be denied. Their silky black hair…petite, firm bodies…and even the poise and grace with which they walk.
I’m sure you are attracted to their exotic and sensual features. And of course, beautiful Asian women possess a sense of innocence that makes us curious to know more about them. It’s a turn-on to think that beneath that shy, polite exterior lies a simmering sexuality that is waiting to be unleashed!
But if you were to admit this preference to a Western woman, she’d probably respond with scorn. She’ll assume that your desire to date Asian women is all about wishing for a “submissive slave” who will wait on you hand and foot and cater to your sexual needs. The B.W.W. (Bitter Western Woman) believes that guys who date Asian women aren’t “strong” enough or “man” enough to handle a “real woman.”
This just isn’t the case, and you already know this if you’ve dated beautiful Asian women. The Asian girlfriends I’ve had have been smart, self-sufficient, opinionated and strong. Yet at the same time, they radiate pure femininity.
Basically, Asian women make a man feel the way he is supposed to!
It’s the way that you and I, as men, were born to feel. We need to be with a feminine, loving partner in order for us to feel confident and content. If you don’t believe me, just ask your married buddies who are hitched to overbearing, nagging wives. They’re miserable!
Having an attraction towards Asian women isn’t any weird “fetish,” nor does it suggest that you are in any way deficient or unable to handle a relationship with a woman of your own race. On the contrary, I say that you are enlightened! You’re willing to think “outside the box” and not follow the same script that your friends do — the guys who settle for whatever girl they can get, because they’re convinced that in order to date stunningly gorgeous women (or a hot younger woman) you need to be rich, famous or have movie-star good looks.
These guys accept the idea that they’re never going to be with a hot, sexy, hard-bodied woman who respects and adores them — and so, once they reach a certain age, they marry a girl who they think is “compatible” with them (which usually means, she’s as boring and ordinary as he is).
What percentage of these guys wind up feeling truly happy with their lives and are sexually fulfilled? My guess is that this number is very small. Most of my married buddies tell me how jealous they are of my lifestyle, which involves a lot of traveling to Asia and dating Asian women.
The bottom line is, we are all motivated by the same desired and needs that were were wired into the brains of our ancestors. Men are wired to want women who are feminine and soft, and who are drawn to our masculine strength. This is the perfect description of Asian women.
I believe there are a number of valid, important reasons why so many guys want to date Asian women. Some of these reasons, we’re not even aware of on a conscious level. Here are some of the big ones. (Note, these characteristics do not apply to all Asian women. I’m talking about the caliber of Asian women that you’ll want to meet and be with.)
#1 They are physically sexy and appealing.
The silky hair; flawless skin; petite, hard bodies; and exotic Oriental features add up to combination that a lot of men find irresistible.
It’s also interesting to note that the Asian face, because of the way it’s constructed, reveals less emotion than the faces of Caucasians. This makes Asian women “harder to read” than Caucasian women, who are known to express their feelings constantly (whether you want to hear them or not!).
In a way, this lends a sense of “mystery” to Asian women. This amplifies their appeal since we, as men, are turned on by the “thrill of the hunt.”
One more note on the physical appeal of Asian women: they usually have beautiful skin and don’t age and develop wrinkles the same way that Caucasian women do. Asian women are known to remain very attractive as they get older.
#2 They tend to be quite approachable.
In my experience, there is no question that Asian women are more approachable than Western women and they love being flirted with. You can simply walk up to most beautiful Asian women, give them a warm smile, and say to them in their native language, “You’re very pretty,” and you’ll often get a smile in return — and that will be enough to start a conversation. With an American woman, this would probably get you a dirty look (or worse).
The fact is, Asian women smile more. It’s part of their culture. You can visit provinces in the Philippines that are poorer than anything you’ve ever seen, and the people (and the women, in particular) will always greet you with a smile.
Actually, Thailand is called “The Land Of Smiles” because smiling is such a big part of their culture. Just be aware that in Thailand, a smile can mean many different things — it may be concealing other emotions. I explain all of this in my book “Secrets Of Dating Asian Women.”
It’s mind-blowing to stroll through a big shopping mall in a city like Manila, Jakarta or Bangkok…because so many young, beautiful Asian women will smile at you when you make eye contact with them!
Contrast this with the women in America. They will frown most of the time in order to assert that they can’t be bothered with meeting anyone new. They will automatically consider you to be a loser, or some type of threat, until you prove otherwise.
It’s true that Asian women generally are more “shy” than Western women — but this is just at first. When you know how to converse with them the right way, their shy exterior will quickly melt away and they will be friendly and warm. Much of the “shyness” you are perceiving has to do with their great concern about being polite.
Now, once you engage an Asian woman in conversation, that’s when you’ll want to use certain lines and techniques to build up their attraction and interest in you. I explain how this is done in the “Secrets Of Dating Asian Women” book.
Asian women take great pride in managing the household and are excellent homemakers. A household run by an Asian woman is always going to be clean and organized. The meals will be prepared with care and love.
Even the poorest families keep their living space as clean as possible. In Asia, women will always make sure that your home is clean, and they will take pride in cooking your meals and keeping you well-fed.
#4 They have a rich sense of culture and heritage.
Many Westerners are fascinated by the colorful, exotic, mysterious cultures of Asia, which are steeped in history. In recent times, Asia has gotten a reputation as being rather trendy among Westerners. This is particularly true with Japan, which Westerners have begun to recognize as a Mecca for fashion. (Japanese girls are years ahead of Western girls, with their super-cool, futuristic styles of dress.)
This is evident in all of the Asian-themed tattoos that Westerners are getting. Personally, I think it’s idiotic for white people to tattoo Chinese or Japanese characters onto their bodies, when they’ve never even visited those countries…but I guess they think it makes them seem cool and spiritual.
One of the great things about dating Asian women is that you will have the opportunity to really explore and learn about her fascinating culture. On the other hand, what’s there to “learn” when you date a girl who grew up in your town and shares your background? With an Asian woman, being able to learn about her culture — and sharing your culture with her — means that you are much less likely to get bored with each other. There will always be new things to explore or share.
#5 They put great importance on relationships and family.
Another attractive aspect of Asian women is that unlike most of their counterparts in Western countries, they put tremendous value on their families and relationships. Choose the right partner, and she’ll be highly loyal to you and will avoid doing anything that will damage the relationship. This tends to bring out the best in you as a man.
Did you know that the Philippines is one of only two countries in the world where there is no divorce? It does not exist. Filipinas are raised to believe that when they marry, it is for life. Even in other, more developed Asian countries (where there is divorce), it is considered a shameful last resort — unlike in Western countries, where the attitude isn’t until “til death us part.” It’s more like, “Let’s give it a try, and if it’s not working out six months from now, I’ll take your house and half your money, dumbass…”
Again, I must remind you that I am speaking in general terms here. Are all Asian women passionately loyal and committed to their relationships? Of course not. There are plenty of warped women and gold diggers out there; you’ve got to keep your wits about you and know to avoid them. (Which can be difficult when you find yourself dating an Asian girl with the tightest body you’ve ever laid your hands on!) The “Secrets Of Dating Asian Women” book contains some very helpful tips on this.
#6 The attraction between us and them seems to be a mutual thing.
One of the reasons why Western men are interested in dating Asian women is, quite simply, because they’ve been told that Asian women love Western men! This is certainly true when you are spending time in Asia, but it’s still true (to a slightly lesser degree) when you are meeting Asian women in a Western country. The thought of this “mutual interest” is what compels a lot of guys to seek Asian girlfriends.
It’s true that if you have light skin and are reasonably fit and attractive, women in Asia will have an “automatic” attraction towards you — because they have a strong desire to have light-skinned babies. In their culture, light skin is an indicator of status and beauty.
#7 Dealing with interracial stigmas is not really an issue.
Western society is a lot more tolerant of other races than it was 100, or even 50, years ago. In America, we elected a black President, which would have been unthinkable only a decade ago. But racism does persist in different forms, and there is still some unease in the West when it comes to interracial relationships.
For example, a white man marrying a black woman, or a black man marrying a white woman, is still considered unacceptable (or at least, inappropriate) in the minds of many Westerners. This isn’t usually the case when a Western man hooks up with an Asian woman. It has been accepted for quite a while. I’m not saying this is a reason to choose Asian women over those of another race, but the reality is, going this route does make it easier for you to “cross the racial divide” if you choose a woman who is not of your own race.
Interracial relationships between non-Asian men, and beautiful Asian women, have become very common. And it’s silly for some people to think that the differences in your upbringing and culture, and those of an Asian woman, will create difficulties. In fact, these differences can give the relationship an added dimension that keeps things interesting.
(One difference in backgrounds that can create obstacles is if you marry an Asian woman who comes from a very poor family, since you may be expected to provide financial support for her relatives. I talk more about this in the “Secrets Of Dating Asian Women” book.)
#8 Asian women have a spiritual core.
Many Beautiful Asian Women observe a religion and take it seriously. Whether she worships God, Buddha or whomever, religion tends to give Asian women a sense of calmness and inner peace that many Western women lack. Asian women don’t need to do constant “soul searching” and fret about what is lacking in their lives. For the Asian woman, a loving partner, a happy, healthy household, and the love of her family and God is enough.
#9 They have a hardworking nature.
In Asian countries, it’s normal for the kids to do chores and help out their families starting at a very young age. They are raised to believe that they have an obligation to help their families. Western children, by comparison, are lazy and spoiled.
You see this in immigrant communities throughout the West. Asian immigrants will work nonstop in order to send financial support to their families back in Asia, and to enable family members to come over from Asia to join them. They build their own businesses and are careful with their money. Asian people, in general, respect the importance fo hard work. A woman who is raised this way isn’t going to turn into a lazy, spoiled “princess” as soon as you put a ring on her finger!
#10 They take a lot of pride in their appearance.
I love the fact that beautiful Asian women are always concerned with how they look, and want to look beautiful no matter where they are. They also believe it’s important for them to “stay sexy” for their man! Western women, unfortunately, don’t usually act this way. Once they get married, they start gaining weight and feel they no longer need to worry about looking hot.
By the way, if you’re still wondering why Western women have negative things to say about Western guys who marry Asian women…can you say “jealousy?”
I had to spend a long time figuring out how to attract beautiful Asian women and make them feel that special “chemistry” (otherwise known as attraction). If you want to learn how to master the art of attracting Asian women, all you need to do is read my book “Secrets Of Dating Asian Women.” All of these secrets are explained in detail. Learn these lessons, and you can start attracting and dating sexy Asian women today.
Marriage Advice:
HELP!!!! PLEASE:) How do you tell a guy in chinese that is cute or hot or just like good looking:)?
My chinese is alright and i know like ke ai is cute but i dont know if that only is for like tell a girl she is cute
i need to know how to say
TO A GUY
that he is cute
or he is hot (not like temperature hot but you know how like us americans say to guys your hot)
or he is good looking
please help meee
PINYIN PLEASE!:)
THANKS 10 POINTS BEST ANSWER
【你很帅】 – 《nǐ hĕn shuài》 – You are hot.
【你很英俊】 – 《nǐ hĕnyīng jùn》 – You are handsome/ good-looking.
Yes, you are right 【可爱】 – 《kĕài》 is only used for girls, small animals and various other cute things.
