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Chinese Mail Order

Written by Ralph. Posted in Foreign Girls for Marriage

Chinese mail order
Chinese mail order

Mail Order Brides: Care Packages From Abroad Or “Return To Sender”?

The Internet woods are thick with beautiful young wannabe international brides. They usually come from non-Western countries such as China, the Philippines, Russia, or the Ukraine. So what’s going on? Are these women after love of money? Will she keep you smiling for the rest of your life leave you weeping in the arrival lounge after she bolts to freedom by climbing out the window of the Ladies Room (with your credit cards)?

The answer depends on who you ask. Most men who taken overseas brides haven’t experienced such a horror story, but some of them have. Still others wish she had slipped out the Ladies Room, or at least that they could stamp her “Return to Sender” and haul her to the FedEx office. So do keep this in mind – how many Canadian women, for example, are on the Internet trying to Chinese or Russian men to marry? If you want an overseas bride, you’re just going to have to understand that at least a good portion of her motivation is going to be a new life in a prosperous Western country.

But it’s not all about money. There aren’t all that many women on the Internet looking to marry Japanese men despite their relative wealth, because Japanese men (fairly or not) have a reputation of being domineering and accordingly are not popular marriage partners outside of Japan. It follows, then, that most of these women are not just after your wallet.

In many of the world’s cultures, economics is considered the only legitimate reason for any “nice girl” to marry – “love” is considered to be just childish wishful thinking. Filipina women, to give one example, tend to be completely straightforward about their economic motivation. Nevertheless, most of these women genuinely do want to be “good wives” – meaning supportive and faithful. And most of them would be thrilled to actually fall in love with their husbands – it’s just that they don’t necessarily require this as a condition for marriage

Marriage Advice:

What does it mean if someone gets porn junk mail in their email inbox?

Do you have to look at porn in order to get things like that or what? Cuz my boyfriend claims not to look at that stuff but every day this all chinese porn selling sight is in his junk box. What does this mean?

Most Likely Yes, They had visited just such a site, They only have to just click on a site , even if they don’t stay on it, one way to check is look through his cookies if he has not cleared them out yet

Asian Mail Order Bride

Written by Ralph. Posted in Foreign Girls for Marriage

Asian mail order bride
Asian Mail Order Brides in America

Foreign Bride Questions:

Mail order bride….Should I?

I want to get a mail order bride from asia or the middle east. A friend told me that these areas are notoriously the best place to find them. But don’t worry about me because i already know that once you get them here you gotta keep them indoors so that they don’t turn into gold digging prostitutes (like the ones you see on real housewives and millionaire matchmaker). Otherwise known as the “yoko” effect (with asians) as i have been told. And i figure i can help the family out by throwing her dad like 20 bucks for a new plow. what do you think?

you have no grip on reality, this is 2008 ! not 1820!
Yes, there are many brides looking for husbands in the USA, I married one over 10 yrs ago.
You must have met in person, there are background checks on both of you, you have to meet income requirements, and the process takes over a year including interviews and physicals.
Not as easy as you may think.
once here they must marry within 90 days and stay that way 3 yrs.
you are not just “buying” a bride.
There are many reputable licensed agency’s out there to help you, but it will be a long and somewhat expensive process.
I married a Russian, and t was well worth it, but it takes time.

Mail Order Brides Services Differ A Lot

The term mail order bride usually conjures up images of the wild Wild West. However, this term and concept are quickly catching up with modern society with online dating rising in popularity.  Using the internet, one is able to research women from different nationalities while looking at photos, video files as well as listening to audio files before deciding who they will engage in conversation.  Online dating has become the most convenient way to date literally across continents. To do this, one will usually use a dating and matchmaking website in order to find the person of their dreams.

Using a dating and matchmaking site, one is able to meet exotic women from Asian countries such as China or India and European countries such as Russia. In the past, mail order brides from such countries were thought to be both overly submissive and unsophisticated. Not so today.  Women from the countries named above tend to come from booming economies in their home countries, are well educated, speak great English with housekeeping skills as well.  In most of these cultures, a woman who cannot keep house is frowned upon.  It is this combination of skills both in the workplace and at home that make women from these countries to be among the most highly sought after.

Most men tend to look for the same fundamental qualities in a wife. They include charm, faithfulness, traditional values, gentleness and pleasant physical features. Because divorce is frowned upon in most of these countries, most mail order brides are looking for a lifetime commitment.   They stand by the men they are married to through good times and bad. Those who are looking for a life partner will do well to go this route. These women also come from cultures that are family-oriented and so most of them have a devotion to family.  This makes them endearing to men who are looking to have a family in the future.

When working with a matchmaking company in the hope of finding a mail order bride, it is important that one protect themselves against fraud artists who may be looking to take advantage of them. There are simple rules that should be followed such us not sending any money to the potential bride if you have not met her.  The idea that one is purchasing a wife should be done away with from the start. Basically, this should be a union between to consenting adults.  Therefore, if at some point the woman decides to back out of a relationship, the man should not feel that he has been scammed.

Some of the signs that the mail order bride you have been talking to is trying to defraud you include her saying that she is absolutely in love after a few emails or letters. Demands for money should also be suspect especially if she posses an urgent need such as surgery for a family member.  Sometimes she may offer to come visit you but will then proceed to ask for money for the ticket, visit and the like. The important thing is to be careful and to make sure that you are dealing with a legitimate agency.

Thai Mail Order Brides

Written by Ralph. Posted in Foreign Girls for Marriage

thai mail order brides
thai mail order brides

Marriage Advice:

Can I claim racial discrimination or sexual harassment(against white English boss)?

I am Thai minority and my boss is white English in England. He told me that my kind are considered good for sleeping and being subservient in bed. I was offended. Then he asked me if I am subservient in bed. I said nothing, he started to laugh and say of course you are, you are Thai. Your kind of women are all subservient, I am sure you have been interested in some white meat. I grew repulsive and ignored him. Told him to stop and left the room.

Do I have a claim, I just want him to be disciplined accordingly to his disgusting sexist behaviour. Unfortunately most English men do not respect “Oriental” women, they are either perceive us as mail-order-brides or sex slaves. When in reality we are neither but very educated hard working women.
Why do people make the victim the criminal. Please help

Terrible…but it will be your word vs. his so get some evidence.

Since you don’t like being generalized…you shouldn’t generalize English men. I’m not English, but I respect Thai women greatly.

Filipino Bride

Written by Ralph. Posted in Foreign Girls for Marriage

Filipino bride
Briton slain over Internet love triangle
A British man who went to the Philippines to propose to a woman he met in an Internet chat room was stabbed to death by her jealous lover yesterday, police said.
Filipino brides and grooms plant mangroves before wedding

What is the stereotype of a Filipino girl? (help)?

I am a 18 year old male and would love a filipino girlfriend I find them very attractive but my mate says if I go out with one people will think I have bought her from a mail order bride and she will only want my money and not me? Is this true because I don’t agree with stereotyping people but even my dad says that to, how can I prove them wrong?

Filipinas are known for being affectionate, sweet, loving and devoted to the person they love … the only question is finding the girl who will love you truly… As you know there are always those ready to deceive people for money, those are the women you should avoid… (NOTE: there are aways bad apples in any group of people) My advice is you should take it slow… take time to know the person for who they are, before you proceed or advance the friendship to a more serious one.

You should understand that a girls financial situation would also be a consideration for your relationship. If you really love her you will need to help her family from time to time.