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Asian Mail Order Bride

Written by Ralph. Posted in Foreign Girls for Marriage

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Asian Mail Order Brides in America

Foreign Bride Questions:

Mail order bride….Should I?

I want to get a mail order bride from asia or the middle east. A friend told me that these areas are notoriously the best place to find them. But don’t worry about me because i already know that once you get them here you gotta keep them indoors so that they don’t turn into gold digging prostitutes (like the ones you see on real housewives and millionaire matchmaker). Otherwise known as the “yoko” effect (with asians) as i have been told. And i figure i can help the family out by throwing her dad like 20 bucks for a new plow. what do you think?

you have no grip on reality, this is 2008 ! not 1820!
Yes, there are many brides looking for husbands in the USA, I married one over 10 yrs ago.
You must have met in person, there are background checks on both of you, you have to meet income requirements, and the process takes over a year including interviews and physicals.
Not as easy as you may think.
once here they must marry within 90 days and stay that way 3 yrs.
you are not just “buying” a bride.
There are many reputable licensed agency’s out there to help you, but it will be a long and somewhat expensive process.
I married a Russian, and t was well worth it, but it takes time.

Mail Order Brides Services Differ A Lot

The term mail order bride usually conjures up images of the wild Wild West. However, this term and concept are quickly catching up with modern society with online dating rising in popularity.  Using the internet, one is able to research women from different nationalities while looking at photos, video files as well as listening to audio files before deciding who they will engage in conversation.  Online dating has become the most convenient way to date literally across continents. To do this, one will usually use a dating and matchmaking website in order to find the person of their dreams.

Using a dating and matchmaking site, one is able to meet exotic women from Asian countries such as China or India and European countries such as Russia. In the past, mail order brides from such countries were thought to be both overly submissive and unsophisticated. Not so today.  Women from the countries named above tend to come from booming economies in their home countries, are well educated, speak great English with housekeeping skills as well.  In most of these cultures, a woman who cannot keep house is frowned upon.  It is this combination of skills both in the workplace and at home that make women from these countries to be among the most highly sought after.

Most men tend to look for the same fundamental qualities in a wife. They include charm, faithfulness, traditional values, gentleness and pleasant physical features. Because divorce is frowned upon in most of these countries, most mail order brides are looking for a lifetime commitment.   They stand by the men they are married to through good times and bad. Those who are looking for a life partner will do well to go this route. These women also come from cultures that are family-oriented and so most of them have a devotion to family.  This makes them endearing to men who are looking to have a family in the future.

When working with a matchmaking company in the hope of finding a mail order bride, it is important that one protect themselves against fraud artists who may be looking to take advantage of them. There are simple rules that should be followed such us not sending any money to the potential bride if you have not met her.  The idea that one is purchasing a wife should be done away with from the start. Basically, this should be a union between to consenting adults.  Therefore, if at some point the woman decides to back out of a relationship, the man should not feel that he has been scammed.

Some of the signs that the mail order bride you have been talking to is trying to defraud you include her saying that she is absolutely in love after a few emails or letters. Demands for money should also be suspect especially if she posses an urgent need such as surgery for a family member.  Sometimes she may offer to come visit you but will then proceed to ask for money for the ticket, visit and the like. The important thing is to be careful and to make sure that you are dealing with a legitimate agency.

Thai Mail Order Brides

Written by Ralph. Posted in Foreign Girls for Marriage

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thai mail order brides

Marriage Advice:

Can I claim racial discrimination or sexual harassment(against white English boss)?

I am Thai minority and my boss is white English in England. He told me that my kind are considered good for sleeping and being subservient in bed. I was offended. Then he asked me if I am subservient in bed. I said nothing, he started to laugh and say of course you are, you are Thai. Your kind of women are all subservient, I am sure you have been interested in some white meat. I grew repulsive and ignored him. Told him to stop and left the room.

Do I have a claim, I just want him to be disciplined accordingly to his disgusting sexist behaviour. Unfortunately most English men do not respect “Oriental” women, they are either perceive us as mail-order-brides or sex slaves. When in reality we are neither but very educated hard working women.
Why do people make the victim the criminal. Please help

Terrible…but it will be your word vs. his so get some evidence.

Since you don’t like being generalized…you shouldn’t generalize English men. I’m not English, but I respect Thai women greatly.

Filipino Bride

Written by Ralph. Posted in Foreign Girls for Marriage

Filipino bride
Briton slain over Internet love triangle
A British man who went to the Philippines to propose to a woman he met in an Internet chat room was stabbed to death by her jealous lover yesterday, police said.
Filipino brides and grooms plant mangroves before wedding

What is the stereotype of a Filipino girl? (help)?

I am a 18 year old male and would love a filipino girlfriend I find them very attractive but my mate says if I go out with one people will think I have bought her from a mail order bride and she will only want my money and not me? Is this true because I don’t agree with stereotyping people but even my dad says that to, how can I prove them wrong?

Filipinas are known for being affectionate, sweet, loving and devoted to the person they love … the only question is finding the girl who will love you truly… As you know there are always those ready to deceive people for money, those are the women you should avoid… (NOTE: there are aways bad apples in any group of people) My advice is you should take it slow… take time to know the person for who they are, before you proceed or advance the friendship to a more serious one.

You should understand that a girls financial situation would also be a consideration for your relationship. If you really love her you will need to help her family from time to time.

Hot Japanese Brides

Written by Ralph. Posted in Foreign Girls for Marriage

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You Cannot Be… Siriano!
“I don’t mind doing two girls at a time,” said Christian Siriano, dripping with irony as he gave the once-over to a group of comely models amid racks of clothes in his midtown showroom on a recent morning. Mr. Siriano, 24, is the openly gay winner of Lifetime’s Project Runway , season four: famous for wearing his hair in a flat-ironed, bi-level “fashion hawk” and for popularizing the phrase “hot …
linh and marnie pt. 2

do you know any good romance korean manhwas ?

hi……lately i’ve been interested in korean manhwas and i’ve realised that they are so much better than japanese mangas in everything : plot, art, script…..
i read :
teen spirit (so sad !!! the author died a month ago)
the bride of the water god
goong
hot-blodded woman
and others…but i loved these the most….
so do you know any not so old… romance/comedy/drama/fantasy manhwas ??

thank you in advance! i appreciate all answers

I will list with Korean title – Romaji – Literal Translation

다정다감 (Da jung da gam – Sentimental) by Park Eun Ah (1 – 18)

An easy read with good heart throbbing moments!

Genre: Romance + drama

Synopsis

It is about a plain girl named Bae I Ji but somehow people around her are not so plain. It is a romance genre and was quite popular in Korea.

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DVD by Chun Gae Young (1 – 8)

Genre: Romance + comedy + drama

Although I did not really like the art the story was pretty good

Synopsis
The female character Ddam tries to suicide after being betrayed by her boyfriend but two guys appear in front of her. They are a comedy bunch and their ultimate goal in life is to lead a pathetic life! Can they make Ddam happy?

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천행기 (Chun Haeng Gi – The tale of god from heaven) by Lee Yoon Hee (Ongoing)

Genre: Romance + Fantasy + Gender Blender

Although some fantasy has a heavy story line this does not. An easy read with good comedy bits it was ongoing while I was reading it but not sure about it now.

Synopsis

The princess disguise herself as a boy and descends to the human world and attends a high school to escape an arrange marriage. She meets a boy who apparently had a rebel image but changed his personality after he met her. With people being grateful to her she leads a happy life but is the guy hiding something? Could he be the one that she was going to be married to?

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막상막하 (Mak sang mak ha – Neck to neck) by Lee Sun Hee (1 – 8)

Genre: Romance + Comedy

A common plot with an obvious story line but the cute art makes it readable but if you do not cliché skip this

Synopsis

Da Bin moves to Eugene’s school to pursue her love for him but her enemy Myun Si Hoo is bothers her everytime she tries to get close to Eugene. But do opposites attract?

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월요일 소년 (Weol yo ill so nyun – Monday boy) by Lee Young Yu (1 – 9)

Genre: Romance + Fantasy

Not a common story line worth a try but a cute art with a little bit of a BL feel

Synopsis

Based on a fable that rabbits live on the moon. Myung Ee and Yu Da leaves the moon and enters Earth and lives with their enemy Chun Ho (a fox)

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Platina by Kim Yeon Ju

I didn’t read this but I heard it was good. It is ongoing and the genre is romance + drama

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There is more but I don’t remember the titles. If I remember them I will update!
Also you can try webtoons from naver.com and nate.com
The one I recommend in nate.com is called 구두 (Shoes – or high heels in the context of the storyline) A romance story that makes your heart skips a beat or two.

naver.com has many ongoing and few good fininshed one.